Every person is different, and it is a good idea to meet as many new people as possible. It helps you learn new things, and friends are always a good thing to have. If you are socially awkward, or shy, there are many ways you can meet new people without being creepy.
Instructions
1. Have the right intentions when you meet new people. Having an underlying motive when you approach new women, for example, is noticeable to them and makes you seem creepy. Stop going out to score with the opposite sex, and go out with the mind set of simply making new friends.
2. Leave the bravado at home. No one cares how many boats you have, or how many super models you have been with. Don't brag when you are trying to meet new people, because instead of making you seem cool or impressive, it simply makes you look like a smarmy creep.
3. Pay attention to the personal space of others. When you approach new people, to speak to them as friends, you must obey the laws of appropriate personal space. Leave at least one foot of room between you and any new friends that you meet while you are talking.
4. Be careful about telling too much of your personal story to people you have just met. In order to make new friends, and not be creepy when you do it, you need to be mindful that strangers don't want to hear about your weeping sores or the suicidal thoughts you had the night before.
5. Keep all communication sparse when you make new friends. It is very easy to fall into the world of creepsville if you call them often and seem too eager. Just let some time pass, and if they are really interested in being friends, they can pick up the phone and invite you out.
6. Make new friends, without being creepy, by being jovial and leaving your emotional outbursts at the door. You may be going through a stressful time, so if it is not a good time to go out and meet people, then stay at home. You should always balance your healthy emotional state with your need to make new friends.
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