Ask a guy about his choice of drink to start a conversation.
While some girls to go a bar to have fun with friends and relax after a hard work week, others go to meet and talk to guys. If you are not used to approaching or talking to guys, you could feel uncomfortable or insecure. However, when you approach guys at a bar, it is more effective to be yourself and be honest, than try to pull a one-liner or try to score him on his interests. Just be yourself, make eye contact, be happy and see what happens.
Instructions
1. Walk and talk with confidence. Although you are at the bar to meet and talk to guys, you should not let your confidence shatter if it does not happen. If there are no guys you want to talk to that particular night, just enjoy your night out with friends and try again another night.
2. Browse the bar for a guy or two you would like to talk to. While some guys are out looking for a girl to take home, others may just be at the bar to celebrate something with friends.
3. Get his attention by making eye contact. Continue to create eye contact with him and smile occasionally. This will let him know that you are interested in him. While he may be too shy to approach you alone with your friends surrounding you, he may be interested in speaking to you one-on-one.
4. Approach him when he is alone getting a drink at the bar. Don't say something pertaining to him or you, such as, "What's your name?" or "You are cute." For some guys, this is very direct and can be too intimidating. Instead, ask him, "What are you drinking?" or "That beer looks different. What is it?" This will get the conversation going without the pressure.
5. Approach him when he is playing pool, if he does not leave his group of friends throughout the night. If you know something about pool, you could ask him if you can play after the current game is done. If you do not know anything about pool, you could ask him about the general rules. You may even add that he looks like a good player and that you want someone who knows pool to explain it to you. This may give him some confidence. Ask him questions along the way about his explanation, so he feels comfortable and confident.
6. Ask him questions regarding his hobbies, favorite sports teams and movies. While you may think he is cute, you may not have anything in common. You want to get to know him before making any decisions regarding seeing one another again. Keep in mind that he needs to suit your standards, too.
7. Ask him to do something based on your commonalities. For example, if you found out that you have baseball in common, ask him to go to an upcoming game. If you do not know anything about baseball, but he enjoys it, ask him to go to a game so he can teach you the rules.
8. End the conversation, if he is not your type. You have accomplished your goal of talking to a guy at a bar, but do not keep the conversation going and getting his hopes up if you are not interested. Instead, tell him that you need to go back to your friends, but that you enjoyed the talk.
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